People all around us are having their own problem. We really cannot measure whose is bigger. But what we should do is to stay on our own decision. YES!!! sometime we should listen to other opinion, but they will never known who are you. Because of everything they judged on thier side. Remember!! people have different backgrounds and thoughts. We should share matul problem when it has occured not when it passed.
Believe it or not some changes are lead to the good result. Unless that change come from bad temtation that will bring you troubles.
Just take it whatever it happen. You deserve on what you have done, but not on what people have done for you.